Well I've lurked and read (and read) and then read some more before reading for a bit starting about a month ago and I first accepted what I'd known for years.
Thanks to the information, wisdom, support and care evident throughout the site I've managed the most important step of my transition, coming out to my wife. This may have been the scariest thing I've done but thankfully has (so far) been much, much easier than I'd feared. Now we've added outfits and makeup to our conversations with me being lucky enough to have advice from a truely wonderful and gorgeous woman.
And on the formalities side of things, I'm 42 and live in sunny Wales. Looking forwards to sharing this adventure with everyone on here.
Nikki