Hey my problem is I decided to go on one of those dating sites I sent a message to a girl and she replied that she was interested in me she knows that I'm transgender what do I do

I say chat some more, see if you like her.

And then ask her out on a date. =)

Chat with her? What I do is get to know somebody a bit online, weed out the folks that are obviously a bad match, and if things work out eventually meet up with the folks who are good.

Ditto to the above. Lucky girl.

Quote from: justmeinoz on June 09, 2012, 04:27:04 AM
Ditto to the above. Lucky girl.

you mean she's lucky

just talk with her, get some basic information, like name, look(if your gonna meet up its pretty important to know how they look)

and just talk to her alittle, If she seams like your time then you can meet up, if not then its also fine.
Just make sure not to get to overexited, meeting IRL its not the same as chatting, but take it as a experience.

Yeah get to know her a bit more or just have a chat, and see what she likes and what hobbies she do and stuff.  But dont over do it.

Just be confidence. I've never tried dating site but I'm sure it cant be any different with chat forum. Just talk through one of those instant messenger or emails, get a feel of things and if it click then meet up. It's basic concept, nothing to be scared or afraid of. But I do need to remind you one thing, watch out for the predator or creeper pretending to be someone they're not. Start off with chat, than maybe skype or phone, then meet up during the day time.

Good luck and don't be afraid to take risks. If you operate within safe boundaries, the worst that can happen is rejection, and all of us experience some measure of that all the time. Stand tall, take it slow, enjoy yourself.

Thanks guys and girls haven't been able to chat yet waiting for payment to clear on membership but I seem to be getting very popular on the site  one girl referred to me as a teddy  it must be because I'm short and Husky

One thing I learned from years of online dating is, don't get your hopes up!

Maybe 'cautiously optimistic' ?