So I've been getting into a casual thing with a friend, and I don't really have...much to work with. I have a GV Sailor packer that I'm fond of, but they're not meant for much beyond packing, really. I noticed the site I got mine from(The Self Made Men), is also carrying a packer that's meant for sex(http://www.theselfmademen.com/apps/webstore/products/show/3160827), and I'm a bit tempted to get it. However, traditional harnesses are a no-go for me. I'm not a fan, and hate the slippage. I have huge lower dysphoria and would rather not deal with something I have to slip down there, for lack of a better phrase. Someone suggested the RodeoH harness to me(http://rodeoh.com/shop.html) and I think I could get behind the idea. Something that's like underwear is ideal for me, really.

Has anyone here used either of these products before? It's really tempting, but I don't want to go spending my money without doing a bit of research beforehand.

Thanks mates.

I dunno if you're on Tumblr, but if you search the tag "rodeoh" on there, you'll come across quite a few reviews! I'm looking at getting this harness sometime in the future as well, so if you end up getting it, let us know what you think!

I ordered the 27-29 inch gray boxer briefs (I wear pants with a 28 to 30 inch waist and so did the person in the review I read. They said the 27-29 inch was perfect on them). It is for me too. It rides low on your hips so when you put in your packer it will probably fall in an anatomically correct position. This reviewer didn't have such luck, which is weird; we both have the Goodfella and it sits just where it ought to on me.

It's a bit difficult to finagle this particular packer into the O-ring but it is possible. You can either back up the end piece into the ring itself or slip the shaft through the pouch in the opening, leaving the balls and end piece inside the underwear. Either way works just fine. But for the Goodfella you might have to practice the former before you're in a situation that calls for fast action... or at least excuse yourself to the bathroom so the other person doesn't have to watch you fumble with yourself.

I really like it so far. I don't know if I'd recommend soft packing with this harness, but I think I've heard of people having success with that, so take that particular advice with a grain of salt.

Unfortunately it might be a while before I'm able to use this with a partner. I'll certainly report back my findings then, but for solo stuff this combination hits the spot. And for the price, it's worth giving it a try. I'm glad I made the decision.

Hmmm, good advice! I'll save up a bit of cash and try getting one harness to try it out for myself. Thanks!