So as you all may know my wife has started a new job and it has raised some huge concerns with me. I am not sure if I am over reacting or if I have a big reason to be jealous. Nikki sits by this girl in her job training and they are in the same groups, anyways I feel like this chick is hitting on my wife but I may be wrong. On the first week of training she saw Nikki had a manicure and brought her some nail polish, she keeps making faces at her touches her arm and also whispers in her ear about other girls in class. Last week she brought up she had a boob job and to me when a chick brings that up it usually means that they want you to check them out... I feel as if Nikki is getting to close to these girls and it kind of hurts me. Like oneday she only text me twice the whole day and I got super hurt, I found out she was socializing with all thee girls.
I feel as if this is hurting our marriage and I need to know if I am over reacting... another girl put a bobby pin in her hair and all these girls keep giving her attentions.

Thanks! But now she's being unfair because me and her sister and a bunch of girls wanted to see Magic Mike and at first she was ok with it but now she threatened me and said if I go see that movie with my girls she will go to the movies with her girl coworkers sooo I cancled my.movie plans because of her...

I can read lesbians like a book.

I had a friend (lesbian, and I was presenting as female) tell me she had a boob job, and describe in great deal how they felt and all that, lol. but she wasn't interested in me whatsoever. She only liked femmey femmes, that was an undeniable fact.

The touching is another thing that probably means nothing in that context...I've known girls who act like that with each other too. Presumably not into each other. It sounds like your wife is just really enjoying it, enjoying being "one of the girls" (at least one of those types of girls, lol).

Honestly, it doesn't sound romantic or sexual to me. At all. If I'm wrong, I'd be very surprised.

If Papa Taco is correct and Nikki is a lesbian then the issue about the threat over going to see the film is the thin end of the wedge of separation unless you like being with a partner who is getting into control freak mode like a macho male.

Like hell it is. Women are totally prone to being "control freaks", it's not a male attitude and I have a friend who has problems with it. Though I guess because she's trans then of course you have to make some sort of crack like that. -_-

OK lets calm down and remember the rules.

Quote from: ~RoadToTrista~ on July 01, 2012, 03:58:47 AM
Like hell it is. Women are totally prone to being "control freaks", it's not a male attitude and I have a friend who has problems with it. Though I guess because she's trans then of course you have to make some sort of crack like that. -_-

I didn't say females can't be control freaks.