I have seen some posts on here regarding what harnesses are good for play. I have had this "harness" for about 3 yrs now and it is really great for so many reasons. It is actually not a harness as you would picture, it is actually more like spandex bike shorts. I bought it in PTown at Wild Hearts. It is really comfortable to wear, it stays in contact with you at all times so there is no worry of it getting loose during play time and there are no straps going around your legs, waist or butt. It is really comfortable. It is a bit on the pricey side, but like I said I have had it for 3 yrs now and use it regularly with no wear seen at all. I just bought a Reel Magic so it will now be retired. I have used all different straps throughout my time and this one was by far the most comfortable.