@Cindy James: What you said about not being able to change your name simply because you don't like it may be applicable in Australia, but it's not in the U.S. I've known a handful of people (not trans) who have legally changed their name successfully simply because they didn't like it. (In most places in the U.S. as long as you're not giving hints of doing it for fraudulent reasons it's usually OK, although a few anti-trans judges have tried to push their buttons by coming up with other excuses to deny a transgender's name change.) Also, the U.S. (despite many areas being homophobic with regards to gay marriage) has no requirement that you not be married to change your gender marker (this means that in some cases a MTF-GF or FTM-GM marriage would be legal but a MTF-GM or FTM-GF one would not be!).