So I'm going to talk a bit about myself. I am male right now. Over the years I've had ocasionaly thought/wondered/questioned why I am male and why arn't I a girl. I've always been jelious of girls and for that reason I seem to befriend them a lot. In my mind my "member" isn't something useful or gain much pleasure from.. I was wondering if this is something normal for (I'm going to say gender confused here cause I'm not very committing) people? Ive also recently started crossdressing in private recently it just seems to feel right when I do and it seems to keep me from getting depressed over being gender confused.

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You are certainly questioning your gender identity.  This is a good place to explore those issues.

Hi and welcome aboard.
What you have written sounds like the path of a lot of us here.
Crossdressing in private is a popular coping strategy used by many, so not unusual either.  Anything that helps alleviate Depression is a good idea in my book.  As for downstairs I tend to think of it as an abnormally large clitoris, and it doesn't bother me so much.

Karen.

Hi Sangre ,

A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.

There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in and start talking.

I see nothing to indicate, from what you've said, that there is any confusion. Labels can often misguide people into incorrect thinking. Your progression is very normal, from what you describe. I hope you are able to fully embrace and enjoy cross dressing. As Karen said, anything that mitigates depression has to be good.

Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.

Lotsa huggs
Catherine

welcome to the forums Sangre 

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Hi Sangre, it's nice to meet you! Glad you found us, grab some snacks and get busy making friends. Hugs, Devlyn