It sounds like the problem's with your pelvic structure, unfortunately.

People with female-assigned skeletons have very wide pelvises that flare out. They're designed to accomodate a penis and to birth babies through. Trans women have male-assigned skeletons, unless they started hormones while their bones were still developing. A minority of people with male-assigned skeletons have pelvises so narrow that if they had a vagina, they wouldn't be capable of being penetrated, or it'd be very uncomfortable. It sounds like you're in that minority.

Then again, it's only been five months. Your vagina's still new. If you can't be penetrated by 1-2 years post-op, though, there might be a problem.

 
Interesting point?
There have been measurements of the 'pelvic opening' and quite to the contrary of the general perception, they differ VERY little between male and female. It rather is the width between the hip-bones that differs quite substantially (on average) which is to accommodate a growing foetus/baby.

The poor baby would be most uncomfortable inside the narrow confines of an MAAB pelvis. Though as it seems, the birth canal would be by far the lesser issue.
Just as well we cannot fall pregnant as MtFs, as much as it deeply hurts many of our feelings, pride in being female, and all that goes with it.
There are of course some very rational MtFs that consider it "just as well" not to be burdened with procreation...
I though this little correction might be adding some more perspective...

Axélle

Quote from: Stealthy on August 04, 2012, 09:19:38 PM
It sounds like the problem's with your pelvic structure, unfortunately.

People with female-assigned skeletons have very wide pelvises that flare out. They're designed to accomodate a penis and to birth babies through. Trans women have male-assigned skeletons, unless they started hormones while their bones were still developing. A minority of people with male-assigned skeletons have pelvises so narrow that if they had a vagina, they wouldn't be capable of being penetrated, or it'd be very uncomfortable. It sounds like you're in that minority.

Then again, it's only been five months. Your vagina's still new. If you can't be penetrated by 1-2 years post-op, though, there might be a problem.

would starting hormones young really create a pelvis shape identical to a genetic womans though? i dont see how thats possible , wouldnt it just be closer to a genetic womans not identical ?

Starting hormones before bone growth finishes feminizes the skeleton. Pelvic shape isn't going to be identical to that of an average cis woman no matter how early you start, but it'll be very close, and depending on genetics, might end up in the normal female-assigned range if you start pre-puberty.