Hi all...... i'm new here and wanted to say its a great site.  Last night after 13 yrs of marriage i finally told my wife that I like to wear womens clothes.  Shockingly she said she already knew (lol) cause I hang her dresses up wrong when I put them back. She said as long as I loved her she didn't mind if there were to nightgowns in the bed and i should be how I feel comfortable being. Thats a pretty good wife to have if ya ask me.... i guess I should of been honest a long time ago but thats a tough one to tell somebody. Tonight she took me shopping for some undies cause she said I don't look very good in hers since I have a better figure than she does. lol

Hi rocco,

That is a very good thing! I told my ex 10 yrs into our marriage and she sadly, hated me for it. For me....being honest was just as important as being admitting, to another, I was tv/cd.

Really, us /tv/cd are pretty cool people...nice to meet ya

Love
DebTV. 

Hi Rocco,

Welcome to Susan's. Great news, not everyone has the support of their partner and yours sounds particularly special.

I agree with you too that this is a great site. Hope you avail yourself of the information, particularly the WIKI, and continue to participate in the forms.

Shelley

Hello Rocco,

Congrats and welcome to Susan's.  It's so important to have the support of our partners, and it seems that yours is a gem.  Cherish her as she is a special person.  Shelley has mentioned the Wiki, but also please remember to read and abide by the rules that govern Susan's.  You've probably read them already. 

You will meet a very divers group of people here many with a similar story to yours.  Feel free to participate, and express your views and experiences as that's what makes Susan's so wonderful.  So again welcome Rocco, relax you're among friends.

Chat later,

Steph

You have a great wife and she seems to know what is really important. ^{She said as long as I loved her she didn't mind if there were to nightgowns in the bed and i should be how I feel comfortable being.} She seem to be very supportive.
I know I will need to tell my wife soon , but first I need to find out who I am.
I only hope she will take it as well as yours did.

Welcome to Susan's.
Jillieann

Hi Jillieann,

Something you said about telling your wife sent me back to a very difficult time in my life. Being found out can be far worse than telling in my experience.

My experience is recorded here if you want to read about it.

https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,799.0.html

Shelley

Hi Shelley,

Must of broke your heart. It did mine just reading about it.
How is it going now?

I need a little more time before I tell my wife. She is my closes friend.
But I need to have an idea of where i'm going first.

Jillieann

Hi Rocco,

welcome to Susan's you are very welcome here. You are amongst friends. So fix yourself a cup of tea or other relaxing beverage, sit down, take your shoes off and set a spell.

QuoteReally, us /tv/cd are pretty cool people

No, tv/cd are a very special people with a very special gift. I know because someone very special posted a very gifted poem here just recently. 

Good Journey,

Cassie

So great to hear Rocco!

One can only hope to find such a caring and wonderful woman....

Welcome to Susans, and hopefully we'll see you around 

-Nessa

Hi Jillieann,

As you could see unlike Rocco I didn't get the chance to tell my wife first and also I thought my wife pretty much knew. Unfortunately she didn't and things were tough and go for a while.

Now things are very good although I think you would descibe her reaction don't involve me. I can live with that. I guess the hardest part was the hurt she displayed at not being told earlier.

I think I was lucky not all are so. Something to ponder I guess.

Shelley

hi Rocco, how beauriful a spirit yur wife is...after i dated my 'now wife',i told her on the 4th date that i owned no mens underwear, just cotton jockey-for-her breifs...she asked more and o told her i got in the habit from my gay-ex...ishe was interested and now shjops with me for bras, panties, skirts, slips, hose & G/B.....i am blessed with a wonderful friend, supportive partner and a cool wife too...all in the same cute package..roger/renae