Hi Leiah ,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in and start talking.
So pleased you have such an understanding and supportive partner. She may be interested in the Significant Others section that we have here for those ultra supportive people. may be some answers or other useful information for her there. I honestly believe, SO are the unsung hero's of our community. Often they struggle to understand, what we've know about all along. Can't be easy for them.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine