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Good excuses why you visit the cosmetics/ woman’s cloths dep’t

Started by Joann, August 06, 2012, 02:26:30 PM

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Joann


I don't need to make an excuse. I'm going to tell them flat out
"Im TG and its ok for us to do this"
But if I chicken out,
"I am an actor in a independent film. Regrettably we have to do our own shopping.
Which I intended to do after the book I'm writing is finished.


Any others?
♪♫ You dont look different but you have changed...
I'm looking through you,. Your not the same ♪♫ :)
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Devlyn

You don't need an excuse, they are happy to take your money! Hugs, Devlyn
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suzifrommd

Quote from: joann on August 06, 2012, 02:26:30 PM
Any others?
I'm a top secret spy infiltrating a terrorist ring using sex. How irresistible can you make me?
Have you read my short story The Eve of Triumph?
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Beth Andrea

Quote from: agfrommd on August 06, 2012, 03:03:01 PM
I'm a top secret spy infiltrating a terrorist ring using sex. How irresistible can you make me?

LOL  :D

I've not used any excuses. First time I bought foundation and powder, I just asked the saleslady, "Which of these would look best on me, do you think?"

She didn't even bat an eye, led me right over to the spackling aisle...

???





:)

No, seriously she just told me what to look for, and together we decided on a good foundation and powder. Very helpful, she was!   (=
...I think for most of us it is a futile effort to try and put this genie back in the bottle once she has tasted freedom...

--read in a Tessa James post 1/16/2017
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Eva Marie

I've gotten to the point that I can shop without having an excuse at the ready, but i understand the desire to have one prepared to avoid the deer in the headlights thing if stopped and questioned. I've found that the worst nervous moment happens at the checkout counter. If you can remain calm there you have mostly overcome the nerves.

You can have a list of items prepared and take it with you. Say that you are shopping for a friend and flash the list at the salesperson if questioned.

But really though - you have every right to be in a store spending money on anything. If anyone questions you being in a store i'd immediately ask for a manager and an apology. Or you can do like i've done and adopt an attitude and stare down anyone that gets in your way  :D Only had to use that one once but it worked well.
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Alicia

If you are at a store you likely won't visit again (like while on vacation), you can say you lost a bet.


If it is getting close to Halloween, say you're going to be a drag queen.


One church in my city has an annual fundraiser. Guys go on stage in dresses and it is run sort of like Miss America. Audience members pay admission then get 1 vote per dollar donated during the event. Winner is whoever gets most votes. If you can make up an elaborate ruse, the cashier might not want to hear the whole story.
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Michelle G

I have always bought clothes and accessories for my daughters, now I get to do it for myself :)


I'm no stranger to buying for a girl!   It's all good
Just a "California Girl" trying to enjoy each sunny day
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Constance

I just went to the MAC in the local mall and said I was looking for foundation and powder to hide my beard shadow. The sales rep didn't bat an eye and worked with me to find the right colors.

Madison Leigh

Quote from: Connie Anne on August 07, 2012, 12:40:09 AM
I just went to the MAC in the local mall and said I was looking for foundation and powder to hide my beard shadow. The sales rep didn't bat an eye and worked with me to find the right colors.


I've had good luck at the MAC store here as well.  I was looking for a "neutral" lipstick that I could wear while not presenting as Madison.  The sales associate that helped us was incredibly helpful and I actually walked out of there with a few other things as well.


Madison
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Kelly J. P.

 One would think that a member of a heavily capitalistic society wouldn't have difficulty with spending money on mass-produced items. In theory, all of the salespeople should be happy to do their jobs regardless of the circumstance, and it would be a bonus if the person they were selling to weren't entirely familiar with the product - more saleability; more ability to up-sell.


The premise is still valid when one takes other shoppers and their thoughts and feelings into consideration, however. This may overcome by the knowledge that there are, in fact, men that buy make-up simply because they like it, and because it improves their look. However, how one reacts to the emotions and thoughts of others is, of course, a very individual experience and no certain knowledge is determined to help everyone, or even most. But I'm sure that other shoppers are not as considered as the employees, so hopefully overcoming the need to have an excuse in case of odd looks or confrontations is unnecessary.


As for myself, I do not buy make-up. In my current circumstance, it is an unnecessary luxury, and it's unhealthy for the skin. The effects are rather long-term, and it's possible that I might not live to see the harm to my skin, but the fact that my finances don't permit make-up is excuse enough.
               
Hopefully my point of view was dissimilar enough to the above to be of value and/or promote further conversation.
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Joann

Quote from: Kelly J. P. on August 07, 2012, 03:49:44 AM

As for myself, I do not buy make-up. In my current circumstance, it is an unnecessary luxury, and it's unhealthy for the skin. The effects are rather long-term, and it's possible that I might not live to see the harm to my skin, but the fact that my finances don't permit make-up is excuse enough.
               
Hopefully my point of view was dissimilar enough to the above to be of value and/or promote further conversation.


I too have limited finances but have found cheap cosmetics at target, wall mart even Walgreens . For Less than $10 i bought a eyebrow kit, foundation, lip gloss, nail polish, mascara and a bottle of makeup remover. Also found a tank top and short shorts on the $1 rack. I'm surprized how much better i look with just a little makeup on the dark circles around my eyes and filling in my sparse eyebrows.
Im trying to have i more boyish look rather than  lady like.
♪♫ You dont look different but you have changed...
I'm looking through you,. Your not the same ♪♫ :)
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Constance

Quote from: Connie Anne on August 07, 2012, 12:40:09 AM
I just went to the MAC in the local mall and said I was looking for foundation and powder to hide my beard shadow. The sales rep didn't bat an eye and worked with me to find the right colors.
Oh, yeah, for clothes I'd bring a shopping list and a tape measure. At home, I'd measure the waist of my pants and then measure the pants and skirts at the store. Not only did this help me look like the dorky husband/father buying for his wife/daughter, it helped me learn women's sizing.

Veronique

Personally i feel a bit anxious before i make a purchase but once i set one foot in the shop i'm all like "Yeah it's for me, so what? What are you going to do about it? You think it's strange? Your problem, not mine!". But really people have no right to judge you. And i have to say that it was harder when i made my first few purchases but confidence comes over time
Hard ground makes strong roots.
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Ms. OBrien CVT

For me it is easy.  Just go.  You do not need to explain yourself.  It is not against the law for you to buy anything you want.

  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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Kevin Peña

I never considered buying makeup (it seems like a waste of money). However, I have had a few experiences buying female clothes, and have done different things to avoid an onslaught of questions.

1. I was being stared at by some people. I just gave them a "what are you looking at?" expression. They backed off.
2. A guy was looking at me, and I just said in the most man-ish voice "boy, what are you looking at?" He backed off.
3. A bunch of guys started making fun of me. I can hear, but I know sign language, so I started signing. In short, no one makes fun of someone they think is deaf.
4. I went shopping with my sister. People think the clothes were for her. No trouble.
5. I just went into the store and ignored everyone. At the register, the lady gave me a weird stare. I just kept a straight face, said nothing, and stared back at her until she stopped.
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JennX

Quote from: Ms. OBrien on August 12, 2012, 09:07:12 PM
For me it is easy.  Just go.  You do not need to explain yourself.  It is not against the law for you to buy anything you want.

+1

Pre-hormones, pre-FT this is pretty much what I did. I'm not shy... far from it. ;) So I'd just walk up to the counter tell them what I was looking for, and if they asked, I'd just tell them straight up that it was for me. No one really asked me much after I'd them that... and I could care less what they thought of me... so whatevs.
"If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain."
-Dolly Parton
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Joann

Yesterday the waiter at the restaurant said "Ill be right with you ladies" and in my deepest resonant radio announcer voice said
" Why... Thank you"
He said with total embarrassment "Oh im so sorry. I didn't...."
Before i would say "Its time to get a haircut" but now i love it. :laugh:
♪♫ You dont look different but you have changed...
I'm looking through you,. Your not the same ♪♫ :)
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Ms. OBrien CVT


  
It does not take courage or bravery to change your gender.  It takes fear of living one more day in the wrong one.~me
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Dweia


Once again I went to one of my favorite shops and I think this must be the best excuse to go again.

The helpful young sales girl said : "You know what.. Yesterday came some new stuff and as soon as I saw them, I realized that one of the skirts is just perfect for you..."

And so it was ;)




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Sara Thomas

I read somewhere that a great way to get over embarrassment was to return a bra and say it wasn't the right size... never tried it, but it sounded good.

I'm pretty fortunate in that I can go shopping with my lady... so I (probably) don't seem particularly conspicuous.
I ain't scared... I just don't want to mess up my hair.
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