Hi Delene ,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in and start talking.
It just goes to show, no matter how old you are, if you are open and honest with yourself, anything can happy for the best. At least you have known something all along. It's never too late for anything.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine