To those of you who do NOT disclose of your past, Did it happen during sexual intercourse a guy suddenly suspected something weird like the scar which is the most frequent and asked you what is that? What are other things that a guy suddenly suspected and what was your excuse to escape?

I have never had a guy ask about my scars but on my outer labia I used Retin A for about a year to fade the scars, etc.  I take good care of my skin, exfoliate (etc.) for FFS scars and of course I try to use makeup on my face and where I have FFS scars.

I would imagine if you are with enough guys eventually you may run into a jerk who has no boundaries and asks questions that are none of his business but my experience is that guys only look for scars (assuming you were sutured well and healed good) if they are already suspicious about you, mannerisms, voice, "vibe", overly sexual and too take-charge, rumors...  Usually a couple of red flags or more or simply a rumor or something someone else said.

I don't have any scars at all. Mines faded really good. I used mederma on my scars and that did wonders. A lot of girls don't have scars it all depends on the person and how good of a job the surgeon did. With mines, no one EVER has suspected anything.

I used egyptian magic and I have no scars either ....If I did id just be having sex in the dark!

A number of years ago before my transition I ussed to have a lover who I now know is trans. The scars on her labia were light and did not distract from the activities at hand. It wasn't until a few years ago as I was going through pictures of SRS results that it dawned on me my former lover was a TS woman. Her scars were identical to a number of womens post op labia scars.
When we were lovers the only thing that ever crossed my mind was that she had an operation of some sort on her privates and I wasn't going to pry. I was to busy getting busy if you know what I mean.
I am pretty sure that most men who see such scars are as unaware of what they mean as I was back then.

I don't sleep with guys, but, the women I sleep with don't seem to notice. Nobody has ever asked. They are glaringly obvious to me but when you are down there you are thinking about other things.

You should see a vagina of a woman who had a rather large baby come out rather quickly. Some of us have warrior princess vagina's, and it does not matter one bit.

A gentleman will seldom or never ask a woman personal questions about her womanhood, its very much a ''girl's private business''

Quote from: Noey Noonesson on September 08, 2012, 11:35:06 AM
I have never had a guy ask about my scars but on my outer labia I used Retin A for about a year to fade the scars, etc.  I take good care of my skin, exfoliate (etc.) for FFS scars and of course I try to use makeup on my face and where I have FFS scars.

I would imagine if you are with enough guys eventually you may run into a jerk who has no boundaries and asks questions that are none of his business but my experience is that guys only look for scars (assuming you were sutured well and healed good) if they are already suspicious about you, mannerisms, voice, "vibe", overly sexual and too take-charge, rumors...  Usually a couple of red flags or more or simply a rumor or something someone else said.

A respectful guy won't ask a woman personal questions, most guys don't go there, they just see it as ''girly stuff'' well thats my experience.

QuoteSome of us have warrior princess vagina's

This is awesome.

Quote from: nicole99 on September 14, 2012, 05:16:51 PM
I don't sleep with guys, but, the women I sleep with don't seem to notice. Nobody has ever asked. They are glaringly obvious to me but when you are down there you are thinking about other things.

You should see a vagina of a woman who had a rather large baby come out rather quickly. Some of us have warrior princess vagina's, and it does not matter one bit.

I wonder how many of these clowns (men who claim they can "clock" neo-vaginas) would know an episteonomy if they saw it? Probably none.