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ChrissyRyan

February 20, 2026, 07:01:40 PM
Was this a compliment?


Went to an off site lunch with someone at work, not a date.   He said that he knows I do not have any interest in dating guys but that if I ever wanted to that I should have little trouble because I am very nice, thoughtful, smart, and cute.

In a way this was an odd statement because everyone at the office knows my sweetie is female.

I think he was giving me a compliment, rather laying on the flattery.  I reiterated that I am happy with my female companionship for sure but thank you. 


The linguine was good.  We had a nice conversation about sports mostly. 


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Athena

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February 20, 2026, 08:03:59 PM
Creepy as it may be I think you should take it as a compliment. I would be cautious around him as this may signify interest.
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Jillian-TG

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February 20, 2026, 09:24:55 PM
Quote from: Athena on February 20, 2026, 08:03:59 PMCreepy as it may be I think you should take it as a compliment. I would be cautious around him as this may signify interest.
100% he's interested in Chrissy based on that story.
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February 20, 2026, 10:11:37 PM
I think it was a compliment.
He was just letting you know that if you decided to bat for the other team, he might be interested. And everything he said is true! You are all of those and more.
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February 21, 2026, 12:04:04 AM
I think it was a compliment.  I don't know if it was anything more than that, but congratulations on the compliment.

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ChrissyRyan

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February 21, 2026, 07:15:16 AM
I have had some second thoughts on this but I do not wish to overthink it. 
It just came out of the blue.  I have used my best interpretation and I take it as a compliment rather than "bootlicking."  Time will tell if it is the latter, but for now, saying "thank you" made sense.


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KathyLauren

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February 21, 2026, 07:38:11 AM
It was intended as a compliment.  But it was a pickup line, and given that he knew you play for the other team, was a bit creepy.

Accept it as a compliment.  But be careful around him.  If he does it again, the creepiness factor doubles.
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ChrissyRyan

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February 21, 2026, 08:12:33 AM
What do you all think that "cute" means?

I guess it varies depending on who said it and who hears it, and context.

Sometimes I see cute and adorable puppies! 


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