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Pugs4life - New here: my husband just came out to me as transgender

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Dear Susan,

There is no need to apologize.  I know how busy you are behind the scenes keeping this site up and running smoothly.  We all appreciate everything that you do Susan. 

Thank you for confirming that I am understanding correctly how I found the real Cynthia.  I have been loving her all along but just recently found out her name, right?  I didn't have a name yet for the person I was loving? I thought I was loving the male all along but actually it was her that I was loving the whole time.  I understand that the transition is the outside catching up to the inside. 

Thank you for being so patient and understanding as I circle back on some questions.  I really appreciate that I can ask as many times as I need to.  I appreciate everyone still being there.

Cynthia and I have had a couple of different conversations recently.  It was good for me to hear what was on her mind and in her heart.  I  listened as she talked.  It did help to hear from her about what has been on her mind and in her heart. 

I really do want to give back.  I have received so much help and support.  I want to offer that same support to others that may be on this journey.  I was so thrilled when Moonflower came back to the site.  It was good connecting with her. 

I guess I have come a long way from the place I started in.  I am so grateful for all of the love and support I have received to get me where I am today. It is my hope to offer that same love and support to others.  I really like how you said it is a long chain of people who were helped turning around to help others.  Thank you that I am a link in that chain.  It  is truly an honor.  It is a honor being able to be part of this family.  Thank you Susan. 

One day at a time...I will keep doing what I am doing Susan.  Thank you for your encouragement. 

With love,
Amy 

KristaFairchild

Quote from: Pugs4life on July 08, 2026, 04:30:35 PMDear Susan,

There is no need to apologize.  I know how busy you are behind the scenes keeping this site up and running smoothly.  We all appreciate everything that you do Susan. 

Thank you for confirming that I am understanding correctly how I found the real Cynthia.  I have been loving her all along but just recently found out her name, right?  I didn't have a name yet for the person I was loving? I thought I was loving the male all along but actually it was her that I was loving the whole time.  I understand that the transition is the outside catching up to the inside. 

Thank you for being so patient and understanding as I circle back on some questions.  I really appreciate that I can ask as many times as I need to.  I appreciate everyone still being there.

Cynthia and I have had a couple of different conversations recently.  It was good for me to hear what was on her mind and in her heart.  I  listened as she talked.  It did help to hear from her about what has been on her mind and in her heart. 

I really do want to give back.  I have received so much help and support.  I want to offer that same support to others that may be on this journey.  I was so thrilled when Moonflower came back to the site.  It was good connecting with her. 

I guess I have come a long way from the place I started in.  I am so grateful for all of the love and support I have received to get me where I am today. It is my hope to offer that same love and support to others.  I really like how you said it is a long chain of people who were helped turning around to help others.  Thank you that I am a link in that chain.  It  is truly an honor.  It is a honor being able to be part of this family.  Thank you Susan. 

One day at a time...I will keep doing what I am doing Susan.  Thank you for your encouragement. 

With love,
Amy 
Your thoughts have been incredibly important to me, Amy! 

Petunia

And then one day you stop to find,
10 years have got behind you,
no one told you when to run,
you missed the starting gun

Finally Anna

Quote from: Pugs4life on July 08, 2026, 04:30:35 PMI have been loving her all along but just recently found out her name, right?  I didn't have a name yet for the person I was loving? I thought I was loving the male all along but actually it was her that I was loving the whole time.  I understand that the transition is the outside catching up to the inside.
The very essence and beautiful in its simplicity (and complexity). 💕
All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players.
To thine own self be true.

Out to self since March 5, 2026. My wife knows it all since June 23.
Integration ongoing. I'll cross the transition bridge when I get to it.