Hi there.
I've been here before, a long time ago.  My "transition" has been a lonnnnng process.  
I'm married to a man.  I married him 14 years before I came out to myself.  I think we'll stay together.  If we split it won't be because I'm trans.  I noticed there is not much support for cis men who decide to stay with their spouses once they come out as trans men.  Like, I only know one other person thru FB.  I wish there was more.
Myself, I much too shy to get support thru support groups.   I'm good one-on-one.   I'm willing to meet.