Hi there.
I've been here before, a long time ago. My "transition" has been a lonnnnng process.
I'm married to a man. I married him 14 years before I came out to myself. I think we'll stay together. If we split it won't be because I'm trans. I noticed there is not much support for cis men who decide to stay with their spouses once they come out as trans men. Like, I only know one other person thru FB. I wish there was more.
Myself, I much too shy to get support thru support groups. I'm good one-on-one. I'm willing to meet.