Here's what you need to do. Go to the store and buy yourself 3 to 5 scented candles. Personally I'm rather fond of Lavendar. Get yourself a nice bottle of wine. For candle lit bathing I prefer a nice red. It has a nice color when you hold the glass up to candle light. However you might want to go with a Chardonay as a white won't show up as badly if you spill it on the bathroom rug. Be sure to put on your favorite relaxing music and your set to go. Bath oil beads with a nice feminine scent will deffinetley enhance the experience.
One must be careful though. Don't drink too much wine before you get in the bath. Unless you're like me. I'm tall and I can't slide down into most baths unless they are the old antique claw foot, which I love. Anytime I have fallen asleep I usually wake up the second my nose hits the water. It is a very rude awakening. The bath oil by the way makes leg shaving not only easier but oh so luxurious.
Have fun,
Cassie