These are some things I did (in order):
1. Lost weight (you seem fine with that)
2. Grew my hair out (0.5 inches a month)
3. Saw a therapist to help me sort all of this stuff out.
4. Went to large social gatherings and paid increased attention to how women walked, talked, body language, speech, reflections.
5. Took vocal and voice lessons
6. Learned makeup tips from various people, websites, video tutorials
7. Went onto HRT within 2 moths of therapy (this helped me physically and mentally a lot)
8. Practiced, practiced, practiced, the natural movements of a woman without looking like a gay effeminate man.
9. Practiced, practiced, practiced, the natural vocal intonations of a woman without sounding like a gay effeminate man.
10. Studied up on Fashion. Mainly on the DON'TS of fashion
I also created a timeline of a video to show the changes...ill post it here for you to see how the changes were made. Good luck!