i really like it, there are a few plot holes but you really shouldnt be thinking that hard when you watch a movie, (john/craig seems to accomplish ALOT in eight months at the end however) as for the "subtext" well i dont think it counts as subtext, she out and says something like "honey i think im a transexual, im thinking of going to the doctors tomorrow and asking about gender reassignment"
thats not subtext, thats blatant..
since i just come out to my mum i guess it kind of edged her in a little, i mean i couldnt start out by showing her boys dont cry straight away could i?