I would definitely ask for a refund or contact the bank to have the payment reversed...it seems ridiculous that he hasn't even gotten back to you in that long. I know the wait is really long, but why not just go for the reelmajik? They have gotten fantastic reviews, their customer service is great, and they always ship their products...even if it takes a little longer. Sure, they cost more, but you get what you pay for...I'd personally rather pay a little more and know I am getting a great product than pay a little less and get a mediocre product. Just my preference I guess. I've purchased some of the less expensive packers and prosthetics, and the majority of them were terrible. They looked bad, felt bad, and didn't last long. My reelmajik has held up great and looks so real...I've never seen anything like it. That guy promised great things and look what we've seen so far...nothing impressive, in fact, nothing at all. I'd stick with an established company...my only hope is for an STP from them! Heard rumors, but nothing solid yet. Keeping fingers crossed.