Your right about the wierd observation.....
I have guy mode.... The smartass, semi jerk, distant, and the list goes on and on... its a nice shield/mask that keeps most people from getting close to me and pretty much everyone from getting to know me. <though nomatter how hard I try Im still a nice "guy>
I have me... Outgoing, polite, human....
I diffrenciate because I need the shield, because I really am affraid, Brave face and hard exterior to protect the gooey soft inside. *shrugs*