I work with all men, 30 or 40 in an office (no women), and already they comment on my looks, my hair, my eyebrows etc etc.... I guess some things you can't hide after 2 years on HRT. Everyday I have to put on a sports bra and 2 shirts to cover my chest up. Yet through all of this I get the simple pleasure (kind of evil) knowing I am around people who, most of which are my good friends wouldn't be caught dead around a gay or TG person. Little do they know that everyday they sit next to me, shake my hand, go out to eat lunch etc ,etc...This makes my day! As far as coming out at work. Not going to happen I would be fired on the spot! Plus it's a job that can support me and my wife very comfortably. I just keep going on hoping that one day I will progress to far, changed to much, loose everything that makes me a man on the outside and really become that women I want to be.