Hello all. I hope everyone here is well and its nice to have joined these boards. Please forgive me because this may be a long post but I appreciate your patience if you read through it all.
First of all I am a straight male who is fortunate enough to be married to an understanding wife who knows that I enjoy wearing women's clothes and she has even bought high heels and other clothing for me such as lingerie and stockings. Its not only highly erotic to me but is a catalyst for our sex life and something I have been doing for over 20 years and over that period I really enjoyed the feeling of being skinny and looking great in a pair of high heels.
I still enjoy crossdressing although the frequency with which I have been doing it over the past couple of years has mellowed considerably, however just recently the urge to crossdress to a 'deeper level' has increased considerably.
I have just recently done something that I have never done before and went and bought a couple of pairs of high heels and a fair amount of lingerie for my own use, (and also my wife who knows and okays my purchasing this lingerie.
However I also went and bought a few extras such as a wig and fake eyelashes because my wife agreed to do all of my makeup when all these new clothes arrived.
Its like a gateway of opportunity has opened for me because now I am thinking that my wife, despite having some reservations about the intensity of the experience, is somewhat open to the idea of me taking it a little further in a purely non HRT sense.
So now I am thinking about, (and doing) exercises to try and accentuate a female figure upon a masculine figure, (i.e., trying to make my butt and hips slightly bigger while losing a few pounds around the stomach) and wearing a corset to try and make my waist smaller. I see these gorgeous looking women on TV and film with their gorgeous figures and faces and I am moved to be like them.
But I wonder how far I can take it. I am a 38 year old male and an ex gym rat who weighs about 86 kg and I want to be as beautiful as I can be around the home and during intimate moments with my wife because she is so understanding. But I guess its a journey for the both of us, a journey that I am not willing to sacrifice my masculinity to walk, I just want to be more feminine in a visually appealing way.
I really don't know what to expect from me coming here but I feel like I need advice from people who have already walked this path, because right now I feel a little lost. I appreciate your time good people
I guess I just want to look alluring and feminine.
Regards Changeling