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Told my boss yesterday...

Started by Ms Grace, October 15, 2013, 05:01:11 PM

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Ms Grace

Three people at my workplace know I'm trans - a close female colleague, the big boss (also female) and a male friend. Of those only the first two know about my current transition. I haven't told the guy yet, he knows about my earlier attempt via mutual friends and is cool about it but I haven't quite worked up to telling him yet. As I'll be needing to take quite a few half days off work over the next several months (for electrolysis mostly) I decided to tell my direct supervisor yesterday. She only started a few months ago but I really like her and have a good working relationship with her so decided I'd spill on being trans, my likely timeline, etc. She was very supportive and happy for me which was great. I figured she would be but it was still hard to get out at first. At least I didn't turn into a blubbering mess like I did when I told the big boss and other work colleague! I said to her that while I'm not keeping it a secret my preference is not to tell most people at work just yet... I'd rather that happened in one hit. There are only 20 or so people at work although we have a huge network and a lot of people know me through my job... so that'll be interesting but I'm blessed with a very supportive workplace.
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Devlyn

That's great news, hon! And it's behind you, that's the best part. You're moving forward.  Hugs, Devlyn
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Ms Grace

Thanks Devlyn, I'd been thinking of doing it for the last few days but we've been very hectic so there was never a good moment. That presented itself yesterday so rather than dwell on "should I or shouldn't I?" I just did it on the spur of the moment without any gameplan. Whew!
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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Devlyn

We have Susan's Place running on the computer at work all day. My boss loves the site!
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Megumi


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Ltl89

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LizMarie

The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.



~ Cara Elizabeth
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Ms Grace

Thanks everyone!
This week I'm meeting with someone from my local Gender Center to start planning my transition at work. It's not for a few months yet but it doesn't hurt to start thinking about it!
Grace
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Transition 1.0 (Julie): HRT 1989-91
Self-denial: 1991-2013
Transition 2.0 (Grace): HRT June 24 2013
Full-time: March 24, 2014 :D
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LordKAT

Definitely better to be prepared. Good luck
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