I had an orchi done prior to GRS. What I have read that it isn't recommended if you plan on haveing GRS. I had one, thinking that would be all I needed. I really didn't have the money at the time nor did I want to spend that much money. I got my GRS about two and half years after my orchi. I found that I just needed to be female all the way. The orchi was not enough for me. I had a urologist do mine. It wasn't so bad. I went back to work after a week, I did some light duty work, I was the boss so I could schedule myself into light duty. I started to develop a lot more after the orchi. I guess the spiro wasn't doing a very good job.
By the way, Thailand is great for surgeries. I went there and I know a lot of other girls that have gone. I had no problems when I got home here and I had no complications at all. I know some girls got everything done there. So don't be afraid of Thailand.
Sheila