Okay...thing saying time.
Normally I am all light hearted on the forums and deflect everything with humour...cause that's what I do to get through the days tbh, the old..."If you don't laugh you'll cry thing" I guess.
But here goes for what will probably be my most raw post on these forums so far...I shall try keep the jokes to a minimal to ensure the gravitas of this comes across...(well maybe just one or two knock knock jokes around the suicide part)...SEE! SEE! THAT'S WHAT I DO! xD I can't even write that opening statement without...aaaaaaanyway >.>
So, I have a very addictive personality. I don't mean that in the way that people want to be around me all the time, that is an entierly different issue that is entierly due to me being awesome...(damnit brain) but I mean it in the way that I can and do get VERY easily addicted to things :S
So far in my life I have been addicted to (in the following order)
- Drugs: Powerful painkillers to be exact, I lost 5 years of my life to them, as in I was so heavily doped for so long that I can't even remember that time, all I have are anecdotes from friends and family about what I did during them that I pass off as "Memories"
- Gaming: Does not sound like much, but it just about ruined my university career, complete and utter escapism from the real world into a digital one was too much to resist I guess
- Sex: Again...one of those addictions that doesn't sound like much...but when you lose friends and family, suffer health problems, and fob off once in a life opportunities, just for that third day-long sex session in a row...something has gone very, very wrong.
- Alcohol: Ah the one most people can relate to...easy to understand and the effects are obvious to even a layperson.
So...yeah...I've been through the mill a bit, and I have the mental and physical scars of my actions to carry with me. Honestly I often wonder how I am still here after all the
>-bleeped-< I have put my body through :S
But here is the thing that bothers me most...I have never properly quit a single one of my addictions.
See, I have this wonderful ability to be "functional" despite whatever addiction I am currently experiencing...so I am a "Functional Drug addict"...a "Functional Alcoholic". I get to work, I pay my taxes, I smile and tell my jokes. In short, I do what society expects me to do...until nobody is looking...or at least nobody who conflicts with the realisation of my addictions.
That's why I lost 5 years of my life to drugs, and nobody even noticed I was doped up to the eyeballs day and night, or how I could do nothing but have sex for 4 days straight and nobody questioned it...
The only times I have managed to..."shake" an addiction, is when I am interrupted in my ability to enact it...then I always somehow manage to...find a new one.
We have...
- Drugs: The family member who's excess medication I was stealing moved away, so I couldn't get my fix any more
- Gaming: My computer broke...so I couldn't play games any more
- Sex: My wife left me...I can't get sex any more
- Alcohol: Well...um...yeah about that...
That's where I am now
I just seem to keep moving from one addiction to the other, I haven't ever really stopped any of my addictions, and I don't know how.
I'm supposed to be starting again afresh, going out and experiencing life as a woman...but I'm concerned that in going forward with my new life, transitioning and everything onwards, that I will continue this pattern until I eventually stumble upon an addiction that kills me.
I just don't really know what to do...
See I kept a straight face for most of it! Go team super serial talk! /flex