Now I am even more shocked.
Last night she asked if I wanted to go out. I said yes. She took us to a really nice Place called Seasons. We talked about room colors over the meal. We are in the process of rebuilding our house some to fix from the hurricane. Yesterday we had installed new door knobs, multi spray shower head (from single plain one), towel/tolet paper/hand towel rack, and soon curtains. We are also cleaning up the sewing/ doll/ hobby room (since all of her son's stuff got pushed and pilled in there).
She wanted me to go with my makeup on, and my new sparkly jewelry, so I did (surprised me). She asked if I had liked her gifts. I told her I had never ever received a gift for my girl self before. And that it was the most wonderful gifts I could have received. I talked about what gifts she would like, and more about what she would like in the house. She then asked as we were leaving if I wanted to go walking in a store to walk our meal off and look at stuff. I said sure. I mentioned we needed a few things. I followed her into the store. She took us straight to the jewelry section of the store. She started showing me stuff and asking what I liked. She said she had forgotten a brooch (silver dragon fly with pink wings), and thought I would like a charm bracelet with silver hearts, pink beads, and a matching key chain with charms (my necklace, earrings, bracelet, brooch, and key charms now all are silver hearts and pink accents(pink beads or gems) and look very feminine and girly. I am one happy girl.
We then went over and looked at dolls for her. She found 2 she wanted, and picked out a really nice cute one she said she wanted.
We then looked at fabric.
Then right before we left she said lets go to the shoe area. She asked if I wanted slippers (mine are getting old). She asked if I wanted some pink ones? (my current ones are white). We found some really nice ones I like. They are very cute and nice.
She then said lets go by the bras
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She started saying I needed one. She couldnt find a good cute one to her satisfactory (lol I would have taken almost anyone that fit). She wanted one that fit me good yet was in a good style. The ones she said would look nice on me were for larger breasts. As we got to the end of the department we saw bra accessories. We saw some really nead strapless ones. Then she saw the silicone inserts. She smiled and looked at me and said how about these? That they would add a cup size or two. Happy, we went back and found one that went with my style, she also grabbed matching bottom that is really cute. She also couldnt find a good bustier to go with them. On our way home she asked if I enjoyed shopping with her, I smiled and kissed her really fully. This was really really good and enjoyable I said. Thank you so much honey. I asked how was it for her. She said she really enjoyed it. And that she knew I was excited to get home and try it on first thing.
She helped me put it on, adjusting straps, feeling the inserts, the nipples on it, very pleased with what she had gotten me. I said know I didnt know what to wear over it lol. She said dont wear anything lol. I wanted something, she then went in closet and pulled out a silk oriental wrap/robe. I then went into the living room all made up and massaged her back and watched her look at and fix her new doll.
I cuddled up with her last night and feel asleep with a smile on my face.
I just dont want to make the mistake I have read about of forgetting her needs and wants. I also dont want her to think she is just there to cloth me. She was very giving this christmas and I very much enjoy it.
