Today I sent out a text to the guys in my friend group that reads as follows:
Hey guys, lately I've become increasingly uncomfortable hanging out with the group because of a lot of the jokes made. Jokes about rape and genocide, as well as racist, sexist, and homophobic jokes happen just about every time we hang out. While I understand that people don't mean what they said, it doesn't change that it has been said. I would really appreciate if people would be more aware of the implications of their words as I feel unsafe in the environment these jokes create. Thanks, guys!
I still haven't gotten a reply from any of them even though I asked and they said they got it. I really don't want to loose them, but I'm pretty sure they're not worth keeping around if they won't respect my feelings.
I just feel stressed and kinda isolated at the moment. :/
