Hello! I may not be the most qualified person to answer this, but here goes. I have been involved with Metaphysics for decades, and have been in nursing for over a year. I too, have unexplained hip and butt pain. It is very hard to sit in all but the most comfortable chair. Maybe I am supposed to "get off my ass". I have begun a new career, and I feel good about that. My transition is going slowly, due to funds, but it is going. At 16, if I were your parent, you would be in therapy, and on testosterone blockers. You may have to get a job, and find a therapist, and go on your own. My 14 year old has a job, so it is do-able! Some therapists, such as mine, charge on a sliding scale, whatever you can afford. I know you are young, but kids mature faster these days. Hell, I was a big baby till I was 28. You may have to take matters into your own hands. I dont know what your parents issues are, but you arent going to change them. but you can change yourself! Best wishes!
