I'm not quite sure where I stand gender-wise, and maybe others are in a similar position.
I started having gender confusion at around the age of 8, but throughout my life the dysphoria has come in waves, some gentle, some huge. I was quite repressed & identified more as a man than my female birth gender as I got older. After an intense whirlwind of emotions, I found the trans community & felt at home. The "title" of FTM felt right, finally. I was gung-ho about my new found inner revelation & wanted to start the transitioning process, although I was hesitant about hormones.
Fast forward almost 2 years to now, and my dysphoria has eased up considerably. That inner gender discomfort I felt has become minimal, still there but in sleeping mode. I have done extensive inner work as well so this may explain a lot. I've also come to realize that my female side isn't ready to go anywhere just yet, as I feel like taking T would change me too much. I feel the opposite with the tatas & plan top surgery soon, but not T.
I currently live as my female birth gender & don't pass at all for a male. I identify more on the male/masculine side but I feel as I'm a duality, both genders in one form. Maybe the dysphoria for me decreased because I finally understood more of who I am. Just not sure at this point.
When I think of someone who is transgender I tend to think they have typically deeper dysphoria issues and/or identify with one gender more specifically, or exclusively.
Anyone else in this situation or can relate?