Molly, I had my surgery done in Thailand. I felt very good and was out of the bed in two or three days. I don't remember as it was about 2 years ago. After surgery the packing was uncomfortable and by the time they took it all out I felt relieved. The only part that hurt was the dr. pulling the catheter out. I didn't have any problems to speak of, the first time I urinated it kind of stung a little and it was hard to move a bowel as I didn't want to force anything with stitches and all. I was only in the hospital 5 days, but stayed in Bangkok for another week. My partner and I went off shopping, now I got really tired, could only shop for 4-5 hours and had to find places to sit down, soft places, everyonce in a while. You will have to wear a sanitary napkin, cause you will stll seep a little blood. I wore one for about 3 months. Even then I had a little spotting going on. The dilating hurt for the longest time. I don't know why anyone would have sex 3 months after surgery. Coming back from Thailand I should have went first class. I was very uncomfortable in the cheap seats and it was hard to get up and move around, trying to get out of the seat. I drank lots of water so it would keep my ureathra open. I have had no problems and very satisfied and very happy that I finally achieved something that I have always wanted.
Sheila