Quote from: geeky_jamie on May 01, 2016, 07:53:26 PM
So, it has been a long time since I posted but I had VFS 12 days ago and Dr Haben recommended 7 days total voice rest which I followed to the tee. My question is, I have been whispering a lot and I am hoping I dont damage something. I freak out a lot but work dictates me to make some kind of vocal communication. I have sneezed once also. I am super paranoid
Although I didn't have a favorable outcome (my voice didn't change) after my first go with Dr. Haben, I agree with everyone that being completely silent and not using your voice at all is the way to go. For the week and a half that I didn't speak, I tried to use all manner of hand gestures to get my point across. I wrote words every now and again and people responded well to what I was trying to say. Strangely, you may find that people go out of their way to understand what a mute is saying who is just using hand gestures.
So one thing I've noticed with everyone's journey is everyone starts off with an out of tune voice, which is normal because we're all trying to get used to hearing ourselves. Over the course of time, with more healing, talking, singing, voice training, etc, eventually our voice gets tuned to the way we want to use it. I relate this entire surgical experience as being given a kid's vocal chords and learning how to use it over time. I believe that in the beginning some of us might have unrealistic expectations of our voice because we're used to a "get-thin/pretty/rich/whatever-quick" society, but the healing process is especially slow for the voice. For those of you who've had GRS, your healing process may have been especially slow like mine. It all depends on your age, health, and healing factor. I'm always excited to hear a good VFS outcome here. It gives me hope that mine will turn out well, however, I know that everyone's journey is different.
Just counting the days until my July surgery date!