Hi guys and gals, I'm just looking for advice.
A bit of background - I'm 15, ftm, autistic and I go to a boarding school. I'm really enjoying it; I have my own room and a private shower so it's about as comfortable as I can be in terms of gender stuff.
Anyway, I came out as trans this week to someone in a position of trust at school. This is someone I get along with really well, and they were supportive of me in my decision to transition at school.
However, I've been feeling kinda awful about a passing comment in a conversation I had with this person.
The conversation kind of went like this:
Person: Okay, how do you want to be identified at school? I want to support you.
Me: Male pronouns, and just generally treat me like any other boy.
Person: Okay. So you're a boy as far as we're concerned.
Me: Yeah, I'm a boy.
Person: So hopefully in the future you plan to have male sexual organs?
Me: That's a bit intrusive, can I not answer that?
The person apologised and went on with asking general questions about my pronouns and how to support me at school, but ever since then I can't stop thinking about the inappropriate comment... I feel so awful and uncomfortable. Am I overreacting? And if not, what should I do?
For clarity, this person is not a doctor, and is around 30 years older than me.
I feel so uncomfortable, please help.
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