Hello there!
It's been a while since I've ventured on here:
I've been dealing with dysphoria my entire life. I've always considered myself a mtf transgender. However, I've been struggling with my identity over the years. It seems like I see the constant theme of "if you don't want hrt or srs you aren't a transwoman, you're genderqueer, genderfluid, etc.". Up to now, I've decided I don't want srs or hrt. I don't hate my male parts, I just hate what society expects of me because of them. I hate the notion of being dependent on meds for the rest of my life, so I've ruled out hrt.
Up to now, I've done things which alleviate my dysphoria to a large degree (the intensity of it varies from day to day but it's never been unbearable): my hair's been long for 7 years, I incorporate more feminine clothing in my wardrobe (I haven't worn men's jeans in years
, and I've started using makeup on the weekends, but my dysphoria still acts up. It's almost like a little voice saying "nice try! No matter how much you disguise it you're still a man with makeup"
I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I have days where my dysphoria is rampant & loud, and other days it's small & docile.
My question is: Could I possibly be gender fluid or queer? Am I not a full trans woman for not seeking hrt or srs? I've asked myself the same question & I always come to the conclusion. "No, I'm just a woman"