Now that Meltzer has declared that I'm completely healed and that all drainage that was still occurring despite the granulation being gone before has ended I'm going to be retiring this thread in the near future. Jamie, my spouse was there when we heard the news which peaked their interest considering he have the green light saying that the size of dilator that I'm using now is plenty wide enough for us to finally have sex. It was the only thing Jamie paid attention to at the appointment but is something that they have waited to do for a long time.