Look at yourself, you are making the same argument that Emily would make. I could paste one of your posts into her thread and nobody would be able to tell the difference. As you are not transgender, you wouldn't understand but the biggest hurtle we face as transgender is to overcome the mental barriers. If Emily's problem is that is is on the spectrum which I am unsure of at the moment as we only have her word on this, she faces the same issue of overcoming the mental barriers. Nobody can do that for her and she must do that herself.
As you don't have restrictions yourself, I assume that you have had some success in life. If you think about it, the reason you had success in schools or work is because of the hard work you put into the task. Emily hasn't put out the effort and would prefer to tell us why she can't succeed instead of fixing her problem or finding a work around where she can succeed. You can't help somebody who is unwilling to help themselves and that is what we are facing with Emily.
