Quote from: PsychedelicSage on January 31, 2017, 07:46:34 PM
And yeah right, cops aren't going to treat trans people with dignity. Why would they? When have they ever?
Pyschedelic,
Several years ago, about 6 months after going full-time, I was traveling across the country in a vehicle I had just purchased in another state. I was still pre-op, no surgeries, about 18 months on HRT, but with my old license, with a picture of the biker-looking dude I once was, and all my insurance stuff in my old name.
It was during a major heat wave out West, and I was dressed in a just a beige, sheer camisole and tiny panties, no bra, with no AC, so I was pouring water on myself to stay cool. I had been driving like a bat out of hell one morning, trying to get across Nebraska before the sun was high in the sky, trying to get back to the green land of trees near the Mississippi.
Out West, there are highways with 90 mile an hour speed limits, I was even on one that was 95. Well, I was doing 95 when I spotted a Nebraska State Trooper car parked in the median, so I slammed on the brakes, but it was too late, he had me on radar, and there I was, almost naked, wrong ID, wet, and a bit of contraband I was having to hide, as a pre-op, if'n ya get the idea, lol..
He clocked me at 88 in a 65, omg!
So, a man about 40 walks up to the passenger window, looks in, and asks for my Driver's License, Registration, and Proof of Insurance. I had the foresight to get the vehicle insured in my old name before I left the state where I bought it, but the registration was in the old owner's name.
I handed him the registration first, and told him I had just bought the vehicle. He looked it over, and then I handed him the proof of insurance, with my old name on it, and he thanked me, looked at it, then asked for my Driver's License. I took a big breath, and handed it to him, and said "I bet you are wondering why my picture looks so different than I do now". He looked at it, looked at me, and said "No ma'am, I am assuming you must have had a LOT of surgery". Then he wheeled around, walked back to his car, and ran my info. He came back about 10 minutes later, I was sweating bullets, and he said "thank you for getting the vehicle insured before driving it, but be sure to get a new license picture taken when you get back to your home state. I'm gonna let you go with a written warning, but be careful, if you get pulled over again, you will get a ticket" I thanked him profusely and told him to have a wonderful day. He thanked me, and said "By the way, Ma'am, you look great, congratulations"...and he was gone...
I was dumbstruck.
I don't assume I know what anybody is thinking anymore. Cops can be amazing people, too..
Missy