Quote from: Kate on November 11, 2007, 07:07:09 PM
And it just reinforces the "they have an agenda and must be stopped!" reputation the fundies constantly rant about.
We DO have an agenda. That's what the fundies keep telling us. So let's show them an agenda.
Karen
Posted on: November 11, 2007, 10:03:54 PM
Quote from: Nero on November 11, 2007, 09:04:21 PM
While I love your spirit and determination, Karen, I must strongly advise against this. The general public simply don't comprehend us yet. We don't want to raise a panic. It will only cause resentment. People don't appreciate having political or religious agendas shoved down their throat.
THEY are the ones who say we are 'shoving it down their throats'. I really want to do nothing of the kind. And I don't want to make penises an issue. But I see no other way to get movement on this issue. I have realized that the fundies' 'complaints' -- 'shoving it down our throats', 'men in dresses in the women's bathroom', etc, -- are really challenges -- dares. They are DARING us to 'shove it down their throats'. READ their writings, and consider every thing they say we are doing to be a dare for us to do it, then figure out how to do it without being totally in-your-face with it. They say we 'have an agenda'? Let's give 'em an agenda. A politely worded but adamant agenda of nothing more than -- nor less than -- equality.
The stickers are very non-violent, but a way to let them know that we are out there. Right now they think we are very few in number. If it becomes a regular event to see Transgender stickers in restrooms in the mall or airport or movie theater, our numbers will be finally noticed.
There may be a backlash. And we may never make any real progress towards equality without it.
Or we can just go back to being meek and trying not to be labeled as activists with an agenda and let them put us in the closet...
Karen
Posted on: November 11, 2007, 10:15:47 PM
Quote from: Tink on November 11, 2007, 10:25:51 PM
Ditto. I'm also with Kate on this one. I go to the ladie's room because I am a woman and have every right to use that restroom. IOW I don't think of myself as someone who is "sneaking" into women's spaces. As I said on another thread, I don't consider myself to be special, odd or extraordinary either. I am just a girl like the zillions of other women who were born with XX chromosomes and the right set of genitals. So there, the fairy princess has spoken...
tink
Tink, I have every right to be there, too. But Trans inclusion in ENDA was stalled, STALLED over the bathroom issue.
This does not take much to do. Leave a sticker. A REMOVABLE sticker. Let the fundies figure out what's going on on their own -- don't tell them. There are also many people who do NOT share the fundies' viewpoint, who won't freak out that an anonymous-but-well-behaved trans-woman has used the same space they used with no incident other than a baby-pink-and-baby-blue sticker left in remembrance of a five-minute visit. And those non-fundies will become our allies.
I, too, want to be treated as just another woman in access to employment, in housing, and in access to a place to pee. But right now, the fundies are playing the fear factor. And winning.
Go ahead and play stealth, but I believe it will ultimately not advance our achieving the same 'special rights' that just about every other group from White Males out already have -- the right to be judged on our merits, not our 'morally correct' presentation. If Real ID becomes fact, many of us will be exposed each time we board an airplane, open a bank account, or apply for a job, anyway
I will NOT wait for it to happen.
Karen