Good morning,
We all benefit from sharing our experience and you can be sure somebody is holding my hand still. We have continual opportunities to reach out and create our own circles of support. There is a fair amount of turnover here as some folks find what they need, or not, and move on with their lives. Many people remain, come back and help inform and be virtual mentors to those along the way while continuing to learn. Michelle is a rock star and seems to posses a keen determination and clarity I too admire.
Dana, you describe a fun and revealing look at traditional gatherings where we can feel that sea change of gendered behavior begin to shift for us. After coming out i found many of my friends self segregated that same way. While I love the acceptance and small intimacies many women share it sometimes feels like a bit of a loss that some guys have become aloof or perhaps less comfortable with me. Stands to reason that birds of a feather flock together?
Coming out need not be a formal declarative statement and your daughter's behavior does suggest that we can telegraph a message of self acceptance as we shed strictures and let more of our true selves shine.