Okay so...i just started seeing a new partner and we're filling out one of those cool Consent Worksheets before we actually get down and dirty [communication is the best~
] and I got to the place where I write out how I want my "naughty bits" referred to and I'm like, ....damn I never thought of that....
Like, I'm FTM[started T but no surgery] and I would never want to use "anatomically correct" words because just NO, but I don't know what I want them called exactly. Are there and words that are more "neutral" or trans-friendly I could use instead? Arg. Anyone else ever have this same problem? I feel like a lone sailor on a ship of confusion. >. < halp?