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SailorMars1994

April 04, 2017, 08:56:24 PM
Yes I do gotta make a post about this. It is awesome. Within the last month I have been called ma'am, she and her more then, well ever. I still get misgendered here and there but overall, I am getting more female pronouns thrown at me now then ever. If I had this happen last year this time I could have had far more confidence in myself, but alas  the happy female feelings i have are here. I notice my mood just becomes more upbeat then ever! And you know something else? it feels good alright! I even noticed I somtimes get a grin capable of eating massive amounts of crap (cant use word that fits better) :D!!! I am really loving this!!
AMAB Born: March 1994
Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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HappyMoni

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April 04, 2017, 09:05:05 PM
Yea, way to go,Girl! It does feel good doesn't it?
Moni
If I ever offend you, let me know. It's not what I am about.
"Never let the dark kill your light!"  (SailorMars)

HRT June 11, 2015. (new birthday) - FFS in late June 2016. (Dr. _____=Ugh!) - Full time June 18, 2016 (Yeah! finally) - GCS June 27, 2017. (McGinn=Yeah!) - Under Eye repair from FFS 8/17/17 - Nose surgery-November 20, 2017 (Dr. Papel=Yeah) - Hair Transplant on June 21, 2018 (Dr. Cooley-yeah) - Breast Augmentation on July 10, 2018 (Dr. Basner in Baltimore) - Removed bad scarring from FFS surgery near ears and hairline in August, 2018 (Dr. Papel) -Sept. 2018, starting a skin regiment on face with Retin A  April 2019 -repairing neck scar from FFS

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Daniellekai

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April 04, 2017, 09:07:05 PM
It's also the sort of thing that benefits from a positive feedback loop, the more relaxed and confident you are about it, the more people will see a woman and not ever second guess it.


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SailorMars1994

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April 04, 2017, 09:13:59 PM
it feels super Moni! And yes Danielle you are so right! I have noticed I have been more consious of myself to allow my feminity bloom. And when i do, omg i just want the world to stand still (too bad it donest revolve around me heheh). But i have allowed myself to be more feminine. It is something I gotta do. After all, when your friends, peers, counsellors, doctors and spitiual people say that you are a woman, based on seeing me as a male and then as a female and note I seem more at peace when I am female and far happier then I guess I am in the right direction! And I guess my feminity is started to over flow so much I am getting called SHE :D
AMAB Born: March 1994
Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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Katiepie

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April 05, 2017, 01:36:59 AM
Way to go! Let's just keep the positive going, and soon, it will overtake any negatives there are.
Steps in the right direction for sure!

My life motto: Wake Up and BE Awesome!

"Every minute of your life that you allow someone to dictate your emotions, is a minute of your life you are allowing them to control you." - a dear friend of mine.

Stay true to yourself no matter the consequence, for this is your life, your decision, your trust in which will shape your future. Believe in yourself, if you don't then no one will.
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KathyLauren

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April 05, 2017, 06:21:18 AM
That is great, Ashley!  I am glad that the world is waking up to your awesomeness.
2015-07-04 Awakening; 2015-11-15 Out to self; 2016-06-22 Out to wife; 2016-10-27 First time presenting in public; 2017-01-20 Started HRT!!; 2017-04-20 Out publicly; 2017-07-10 Legal name change; 2019-02-15 Approval for GRS; 2019-08-02 Official gender change; 2020-03-11 GRS; 2020-09-17 New birth certificate
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sarah1972

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April 05, 2017, 07:13:19 AM
Quote from: SailorMars1994 on April 04, 2017, 08:56:24 PM
And you know something else? it feels good alright! I even noticed I somtimes get a grin capable of eating massive amounts of crap (cant use word that fits better) :D!!! I am really loving this!!

Congratulations! So happy for you!

Yeah... the eating. Right there with you. My current favorite: Tablespoons full of Ranch Dressing. Everyone around me just shrugs and nags me: See this is what hormones do! And we all laugh about it...

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SailorMars1994

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April 05, 2017, 08:41:21 AM
Quote from: sarah1972 on April 05, 2017, 07:13:19 AM
Congratulations! So happy for you!

Yeah... the eating. Right there with you. My current favorite: Tablespoons full of Ranch Dressing. Everyone around me just shrugs and nags me: See this is what hormones do! And we all laugh about it...

Erm... I wasnt being litteral lol, it is an expression for which I can not use the full length of the originial word so I substituted it :)
AMAB Born: March 1994
Gender became on radar: 2007
Admitted to self : 2010
Came out: May 12 2014
Estrogen: October 16 2015
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Dani

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April 05, 2017, 08:45:06 AM
I am now 4 months post FFS and being gendered correctly feels just fantastic! ;)
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