I feel your impatience. I've been on HRT for 10 months now and it is hard for me to recognize my changes.
But I was talking my ex last night and she seems to think things are progressing nicely for me.
When you look at yourself every day, it's really hard to see the changes.
Try to think of it in terms of children growing up. When you see your child everyday you don't notice much. But when your relatives and friends see your children once a year, they're amazed at how much different they look.
It's our second puberty, it's not going to happen overnight.