That's rough having the family and injured wife at the same time as you are starting in on your HRT. Something that might be to your benefit, though, is that HRT is a very slow process, and the care you need to deliver to your wife and family can be a welcome distraction from the dysphoria.
As I recall, you just got bumped up to therapeutic levels of HRT a few weeks ago. If you can spend a few months delivering the care others need, then you and they might be able to better work on your care once the effects of HRT have started to kick in for real.
My experience was that I was impatient and spent too much time worrying about myself when I was first on HRT. A good distraction would have been useful for me for the first few months.
Yes, I'm trying to put a positive spin on an unfortunate situation, but I have found that to be a useful way to process the ups and downs of transition, and I hope you don't mind my suggesting this.