Hi everyone,
I had SRS, along with BA, 4 months ago, on 4th Sept. I am in nursing school currently. The thing is I am still having a hard time to focus. And I feel like I'm still not giving 100% of me to my studies. Crazily enough, my classes started on 18th September but I was only able to go on the 26th September and it still honestly felt it was too early. I could barely sit without feeling pain. Amazingly, my grades so far haven't dropped a lot, thankfully, but I'm much less studious than I was last year. My stamina has mostly come back but I still don't feel 100%, and there's various times I feel down and depressive. I have been trying to exercise everyday 40 minutes, and then walking for a about 15 minutes a day but after new year's and drinking a bit of alcohol, I had a total breakdown in energy and stamina and had to stay home. Is this normal? Am I pushing myself too far? How long did take for you girls to have all of your energy and focus back?
Also, because of all the blood discharge, I now have iron deficiency which is what caused my hair to fall out so much. I'm also having some minor acne appearing and weight gain in my mid section which doesn't go away easily, like really small pimples but annoying. I think I might be taking too much estrogen, could it be?
And lastly but not least I'm going out with a great guy who's seven years older than me, and we have already kissed and done some light stuff and he's so sweet and such a gentleman. We haven't had sex yet. I'm so nervous. How should I tell him? I don't say things like "I was a man", ugh, it just doesn't sound true to me and this is not about being manipulative, but wording things in a way he can better relate to me as a woman and understand. How did you girls tells? Should I? I have thought of being completely stealth but I don't know if I can make it. I wouldn't feel good doing this.
Also, dilation. I sleep with a dilator every night, but honestly it still feels a bit painful to dilate and I often bleed. Will I bleed like this after sex? I'm afraid sex will be painful. My clitoris is sensitive when I touch it, haven't orgasmed yet though, but vaginally the only thing I feel is a lot of pressure. Maybe I'm not dilating as much as I should. However, I thought sleeping with the dilator would be the best option for someone who has to study like me.
Thanks a lot everyone,