I'm 17, AFAB, and somewhat curious about this. Could I be intersex, or is it just a coincidence that I have all these traits?
· I've always had a deeper than usual voice for a female, and sometimes/often get mistaken for a guy over the phone.
· In the same vein (when I had short hair, I don't any more so this no longer happens) I often had people mistaking me for a guy, even after hearing me speak.
· I have quite small breasts, small enough that when I went bra shopping a couple of days ago, my size literally didn't exist.
· I have large feet (AU 11), broad-ish shoulders, and am a little taller than average.
· Not sure this counts for much, but my ring finger is longer than my pointer finger, which is not the norm with women, is more typical of a male, and indicates a greater exposure to testosterone in the womb.
I do have my period and I think it's pretty standard, but because I used birth control to skip periods for a few years (I'm off of birth control now), I haven't had a whole lot of time to judge whether or not my periods are regular and normal. As far as I'm aware, my genitals look normal, but I could be wrong.
Here's the kicker - I started questioning my gender a few years ago (before thinking about the possibility of being intersex, which only started today). I loosely identified as non binary for a few years (don't really know what to call myself now), and have been a tomboy my whole life. For a while, I couldn't decide if I was FtM transgender, but I don't believe that I am. I'm honestly not sure what to think of myself. But all of these traits, mixed with the gender questioning, does make me wonder if there's any chance I'm intersex.
A little while ago during my gender questioning, (before the idea of intersex occurred to me) I remember thinking that I would somehow feel more comfortable with myself/my identity if I knew I was partially male on the inside.
Thoughts? Might this be worth looking into, or does it seem unlikely?