Here's the thing: I already came out once before. My parents, however, were (reasonably) concerned that I was jumping the gun on this, as it sort of came out of nowhere. They were going to find me a therapist who specializes in gender identity, but that sort of just never happened. It's been about 7 years now, I think. I'm already out to my girlfriend and a few online friends, but nobody else. I have an appointment with my psychiatrist on the 30th, (unrelated to this. I also have ADHD, anxiety, and depression. This doctor is for that) and I'm bringing my girlfriend so she can help me come out there and hopefully get me recommended to someone who can help.
Now, the main thing I'm concerned about is my family being TOO accepting and overcorrecting themselves. Like... I don't want to get any jewelry for my birthday. I don't want to start going out to the tea house with the women in my family every thanksgiving. I don't even want them to invite me. I want them to use my new name and that's it. I'm not hiding any urge to become more feminine than I already am. I just want to be the same exact person but with boobs.
