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[JustMe42]

Hey all, I'm a mid-20s person who just isn't really sure. I feel like I identify as gender fluid/non binary. My awesome husband is a trans man and is helping me explore binders and clothing options and also showed me this site. However, I just feel very unsure of myself or who (what?) I am. I feel like every non-cis person I've ever met has some sort of epiphany about their identity and I really don't. I'm just very confused and looking for guidance and hopefully some people who have a story a little similar to mine. Thanks!

[Maid Marion]

Welcome!

Clothing can be a challenge.  I remember the bad old days in which I'd basically buy anything besides boring polos/dress shirts that would actually fit!  Then I started wearing women's clothes in men's styles and discovered that just about everything fit perfectly!    It is easier now that stores like Target are selling unisex clothing for kids.  Men's clothing should be a little looser than women's clothing, so you can't tell whether someone is ripped or a tad overweight. But it is really bad to wear clothes that "float" on you if you are small, as that makes you look even smaller.

[Jessica]

Hi JustMe42 🙋‍♀️ Welcome to Susan's Place!  I'm Jessica.
I'm glad you've found this site!  Personal experiences of other members is one way to help with finding who you are.  Another excellent place is seeking out a gender therapist.  They can help guide you on your own personal path.

I see your new here, so I'll post some links that may help you get better acquainted with the site. Pay attention to the site rules they can be of great help and don't forget the link highlighted red.  It has answers to questions that are commonly asked.  Then join in on a topic you find interesting and learn and share.

Things that you should read

Site Terms of Service & Rules to Live By	Standard Terms & Definitions	Post Ranks (including when you can upload an avatar)	Cautionary Note
Reputation rules	News posting & quoting guidelines	Photo, avatars, & signature images policy	Membership Agreement

[Northern Star Girl]

Hey all, I'm a mid-20s person who just isn't really sure. I feel like I identify as gender fluid/non binary. My awesome husband is a trans man and is helping me explore binders and clothing options and also showed me this site. However, I just feel very unsure of myself or who (what?) I am. I feel like every non-cis person I've ever met has some sort of epiphany about their identity and I really don't. I'm just very confused and looking for guidance and hopefully some people who have a story a little similar to mine. Thanks!

@JustMe42
Dear JustMe42
Thank you for signing up and coming to the Forums to make your first postings. 
I see that our beautiful and very lovely member @Jessica  has just sent you an official welcome message already here on this tread that you posted on.

Please allow me to also WELCOME you to Susan's Place.  You will find this a safe and friendly place to share with others  and to read about others similar trials, tribulations, and successes.
It is nice that you have signed up so you can share with others and involve yourself with some give and take with other members.
When frustrated or if you have successes you can share it here if you wish and receive support from others and offer support to others. ....

***It's a very good chance that you might find that you will make some new friends here.

Please come in and get involved at your own pace.
Be sure to look at the Links that our member @Jessica    posted below her welcome message, there is information about the site that will help you navigate around and best utilize the features here.
Pay special attention to the LINKS IN RED...
...answers to questions that many new members have can be found there.

Again, Welcome to Susan's Place.
Danielle

[V M]

Hi there

Welcome to Susan's Place    Glad to have you here, join on in the fun

Hugs

V M