Quote from: amydane on August 22, 2018, 10:48:23 PM
I fear going to a urologist that doesn't routinely work with transgender patients. I guess I'm concerned about a lack of sensitivity. Thanks!
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I understand the concern. I'm in the Midwest and have been pleasantly surprised how well most medical professionals have treated me. It seems younger PAs have mostly all had at least mention of the biological reality of being transgender taught to them in medical school. Doctors have been completely fine. Some are curious if they have never had a trans patient before. I had one general practice doctor in a convenant care office ask me if the HRT made noticeable difference as far as the disphoria went. She was genuinely interested from a medical standpoint.
When I went looking for an urologist I did ask the local support community for names. Then I also started just calling and asking the office staff if the doctor was comfortable doing an orchi for a trans patient. Generally I found that within all of the urology practices, at least one doctor says yes. Many offices have web sites where you can message the staff to ask. I did that with a few practices where I had not been told any doctors name. The office staff were all good about replying to my email.
I ended up getting out of pocket pricing from two doctors in St. Louis. The doctors both had really reasonable fees but one used a surgical center and the other used the OR in a major hospital. The cash price was very different because of this. While I was saving up, I was told another doctors name. This doctor was 50 miles away from St Louis in another smaller city with a University medical school. I called and got a consultation appointment. This was a male doctor. He was very professional though not personable like the female urologists were. However, since I had a history of pain, had teaticular sonograms that found nothing wrong done a couple of years apart, and already was under an endocrinologists care, this doctor wrote it up so insurance would cover the entire procedure cost for me. He made a case for medical nessecity for me. I actually spent less than 20 minutes talking to him between the initial consult and the single follow up. After that initial consult he wrote up a multi paragraph diagnosis and reason which his office submitted for approval to my insurance. My very anti-trans insurance. I had a surgical date scheduled for just two weeks after my consult.