After First T Shot Anxiety?

[valeamando]

Hey there. Finally signed up after lurking for years. I just did my first t-shot a few hours ago. I wasn't sure for the longest time if HRT was right for me (mostly because I'm kinda sentimentally attached to my singing voice), but decided the other changes were worth the "sacrifice." So I jumped right in.

I'm wondering if anyone who's on T ever experienced any uncertainty and/or regret moving forward with HRT, especially in the early stages. I realize I can just stop, and likely nothing will even happen, but I don't want to stop. I just want to know if my insecurities about my decision are maybe just normal at first. Does that make sense? Hopefully that makes sense.

[Daniels]

I don't think everyone experiences doubt right after their first shot but I bet plenty of people do.

I've been on and off T a few times over the last couple of years due to anxiety about transitioning. My doctor is understanding and let's me go on and off as I please. Most of the changes lessen quickly and I am read as female again within a couple of months. My voice has permanently changed but it does go back to being a bit higher when I stop T. It also feels easier to get a broad vocal range without the T. I have been on lowish doses and I believe that gives me more time to adjust to using my new voice than if I went in on a full dose.

So I guess what I'm saying is anxiety is normal for me but it helps knowing that if I ever don't feel right with the changes I can just stop and regain some of what I've lost.

Good luck. Deep breaths and exercise are the best things for me when I get anxious.

[Ricki Wright]

This is a huge change in your life. I would be more concerned if you were not questioning your decision. Taking an honest appraisal of your path is healthy. When people experience fear, that is just our brain telling us to "pay attention. This might be important."

I has been over a month since that shot you mentioned. How are things now?

Hugs!

Ricki

[Northern Star Girl]

Hey there. Finally signed up after lurking for years. I just did my first t-shot a few hours ago. I wasn't sure for the longest time if HRT was right for me (mostly because I'm kinda sentimentally attached to my singing voice), but decided the other changes were worth the "sacrifice." So I jumped right in.

I'm wondering if anyone who's on T ever experienced any uncertainty and/or regret moving forward with HRT, especially in the early stages. I realize I can just stop, and likely nothing will even happen, but I don't want to stop. I just want to know if my insecurities about my decision are maybe just normal at first. Does that make sense? Hopefully that makes sense.

@valeamando
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[Northern Star Girl]

@valeamando
Oh, and another thing Valeamando...
Please plan to find your way to the Introductions Forum so that more members will be aware of your arrival.
     
Thank you again for joining Susan's Place and being involved in the Forums here.
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[maksim]

I'm almost 2 years on T and I still get that anxiety sometimes, questioning whether or not I want to continue going forward with it. It's pretty normal, I'd say. The excitement followed by the anxiety.

What helps me combat it is remembering how happy all of the new changes make me each time something new happens, or I start gradually seeing development in certain areas, and how happy I am when I pass. However, that's not always possible with the first T shot.
If the anxiety goes away after a while and you enjoy looking ahead and seeing yourself passing and looking and sounding like a cis male, then the anxiety is probably just that: anxiety. But if it's constantly persisting then I suggest talking to someone about it and really thinking about whether this is something you need to do or not, because HRT is a huge thing, particularly testosterone as it's such a strong hormone. But as Ricki said, our brains do give us anxiety to tell us to pay attention. It feels like a trick, but it's just trying to protect us.

[Darlene]

Hey there. Finally signed up after lurking for years. I just did my first t-shot a few hours ago. I wasn't sure for the longest time if HRT was right for me (mostly because I'm kinda sentimentally attached to my singing voice), but decided the other changes were worth the "sacrifice." So I jumped right in.

I'm wondering if anyone who's on T ever experienced any uncertainty and/or regret moving forward with HRT, especially in the early stages. I realize I can just stop, and likely nothing will even happen, but I don't want to stop. I just want to know if my insecurities about my decision are maybe just normal at first. Does that make sense? Hopefully that makes sense.

I think many do.... It really helps to have support. I have anxiety on occasion. I will talk to my therapist & my mother. My mother by & far is my biggest supporter. She know the old me. She's seen the positive changes HRT has brought about. Hang in there.... it will pass